Showing posts with label flying with cats. Show all posts
Showing posts with label flying with cats. Show all posts

Thursday, August 2, 2012

The cats are starting to adjust to their new home


One of my biggest concerns when planning this move from Ohio to Arizona was how my cats, Calcifer and Ginko, would adjust to a totally new environment.  The first challenge was the 6 hour plane ride.  Neither of my cats had done much traveling of any sort, so I knew they would be scared.  To make them as comfortable as possible in their carriers I put their favorite towels in the bottom and sprayed them with Feliway, which is recommended by vets to keep cats calm in stressful situations. My brother's fiance came to help me with the cats, which were considered one of our carry on items (Southwest airlines allows 2 carry ons).  We each carried one of the cat carriers, which were placed under the seats in front of us during the flight.  I was really surprised at how well the cats did, and I know the Feliway helped a lot.  After we landed in Phoenix we still had to rent a car and drive about 2 hours to Prescott.  During the flight and the car ride I kept talking softly  to Calcifer and Ginko to help keep them calm and let them know that I was nearby.
When we finally got to the house both cats were exhausted and more than ready to get out of their carriers.  I went into the first empty bedroom to let them out and Ginko hopped up into the window while Calcifer curled up in the corner of the closet.  Unfortunately Mother's large German Shepherd, Reisha happened to be on the other side of the window and started barking at the cat.  This scared the poor kitty and I spent the next half hour trying to comfort him and calm him down.  I was also completely exhausted by this time since I hadn't slept in about a week.  So our first night in the new place was a bit rough.
But over the next few days we all started to relax and feel more at home.  I moved the cats (and myself) into the larger bedroom and plugged in a Feliway diffuser to help create a calm environment.  This room also had a closet (or cupboards) with shelves and Calcifer claimed the bottom cupboard as his "house".  This was his safe space and whenever the dogs barked or something made him nervous he could go in there and feel safe.

We now have a routine where I lock the dogs up for a bit in the evening and allow Ginko and Calcifer roam the house safely.  It didn't take too long before curiosity won out over fear and Ginko made the first bold steps to explore the new house.  He did a bit of reconnaissance, deemed it safe, and went back to tell Calcifer about it.  So Cacifer followed his little brother and discovered for himself that this new place was pretty interesting.  Of course any time something frightens them they hurry back to the safety of their room, but they're much quicker to come back out now.  They enjoy playing with the hapless June bugs and large beetles that sometimes find their way into the house ;-)  They find the sink to be a fun place to explore as well.

They spend most of the day lounging and sleeping in their room with me (funny how I call it THEIR room- LOL), and evenings are spent playing and roaming the house.  One thing is sure- they are much more relaxed here with me, Mother, and all the other animals than they were with my ex back in Ohio.  Ginko has stopped trying to steal Calcifer's food and Calcifer is eating much more than he used to, which is good because he was a bit underweight.  Stress affects animals just as much as it affects people.  Sometimes you need to take them out of that stressful situation to even realize that they've been affected.
They both seem to enjoy the view from the bedroom window as much as I do.  Ginko even gives me little kitty kisses to say Thank You for giving them such a nice place to live ;-)

In my next post I'll introduce you to the rest of the critters I share my home with.

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

New Beginnings

It's been a month since I last posted on here and in that time I left my emotionally abusive husband, cleaned out Gramma's house (it's still up for sale), packed up all my belongings, and moved myself and my two cats across the country to Arizona.  Hey, no baby steps for me- when I go to change something I do it BIG! LOL  Of course in all seriousness none of this has been easy, and none of this would have been possible without all the help and support I received from my family and friends.  So here I am in Prescott Arizona, starting all over again, which isn't a bad thing- I get one gigantic do over.  Marrying my husband was a mistake in the first place, and I was never truly happy in the marriage, although I desperately tried to convince myself otherwise.  He was a cruel and controlling man who did his very best to isolate me from my family and any friends I might have.  I may blog more about that part of life at another time.  Right now I'm still sorting through the last 16 years and wading through that emotional minefield.
I will tell you about the trip from Ohio to Arizona though.  Things worked out rather perfectly- my mom just rented the house in Prescott (she actually signed the lease before she even knew what was going on in my marriage).  All it really took was her offer of a place to stay, and I ended up finally telling her the truth about my life.  Up to that point no one knew the hell that I lived in.  So she and my brothers began planning a way to get me out of there and out to Arizona.  My youngest brother's fiance flew in from CA so she could fly back to Arizona with me.  I needed someone along for the flight for a few reasons.  For one thing I was flying with my cats, Calcifer and Ginko, and I needed someone to carry one of their pet carriers.  For another thing I had never flown before and Sarah happens to have traveled quite a bit during her life, so she knew the ropes ;-)  She also really helped to keep me calm and keep me laughing.  This was the first time I had meet my future sister-in-law, and I must say, I love her already ;-)  She was wonderful with the cats too- very kind and gentle, which was just what they needed.  I sprayed the towels in their carriers with Feliway (calming cat pheromones) before we left, and I was really amazed at how well they did.  They were scared, of course, but there was no yowling or total freak outs.  Once we were on the plane they actually managed to fall asleep for a while.  It was about a 6 hour flight and then at least a 2 hour drive from Phoenix to Prescott.  And did I mention that I was doing all this after not sleeping for about a week?  By the time we got to our new home the cats and I were all exhausted!
It took a few days, but once I was finally able to get some sleep and get over a bit of altitude sickness I was able to really appreciate the beauty of Arizona.  Mother and I made a few trips back to Phoenix to move the rest of her stuff from her apartment, and I got to experience Phoenix in mid-summer.  They say it's dry heat, but 108 degrees is just incredibly hot no matter how you look at it!  Prescott, on the other hand is at least 20 degrees cooler and more of a mountain environment than a desert environment.  It also gets more rain, which I didn't expect.  We've actually had a good bit of rain each afternoon for the last 3 days.  I really love it here.  I'll have been here one week tomorrow, and already this feels like home.  The West just feels so different from where I came from.  The sky is clearer and bigger somehow, the landscape just takes my breath away, and the people are so open and friendly.
And I have everything I could ever ask for right in one place.  In one direction I have a national forest within easy walking distance, and in the other direction I have the cool town of Prescott with all it's shops and neat places to check out.  I don't believe I have ever felt so happy, calm, and relaxed.  And it doesn't hurt to have most of the country between me and my ex.  I think I'm going to split this into several posts, because I have so much to talk about.  I'll let you know how the cats are adjusting and tell you about some of the awesome things I've seen.  To end this post I want to share the view that I wake up to every morning when I look out my window.  Seeing this every morning just makes me happy to be alive! :-)